BY SAMUEL OMOLOLA EDEMA
“Happily ever after” is the wish of every couple on the wedding day. This is a statement of fact especially from someone who has spoken to several singles wishing to marry… Unfortunately, the road to “happily Ever After” is hardly followed by these men and ladies. Happily Ever After is much more than wishful thinking, it’s serious work from both parties involved!
Most experts says, the toughest times in marriage is the first 3 to 5 years… Infact research says 6 in every 10 marriages fail within these trying times of 3 to 5 years… Because these issues are truly challenging and seven of them are more
The reality is even couples who passionately love each other will experience these issues and may fall by the wayside if not properly handled… And to handle these issues we have provided big practical and easy to follow steps. But first here are the big 7 issues most couples will face in their early years of marriage.
Money Issues: Balancing finances is a significant challenge for newlywed couples. Learning how to manage expenses, create a budget, and handle financial responsibilities together can help avoid conflicts and promote financial stability.
In-Laws and Extended Family: Navigating relationships with in-laws and extended family members can be tricky. Each partner brings their own family traditions and dynamics into the marriage, which may take time to adjust to. Open communication, respect, and setting boundaries can help manage these relationships effectively.
Time Management and Schedules: Adjusting to married life means learning to coordinate schedules and find a balance between individual and shared activities. It’s important to make time for each other, communicate about expectations, and be flexible in accommodating each other’s needs.
Adjusting to Living Together: Living together reveals new aspects of your partner that were not apparent during dating. It’s normal to discover habits or behaviors that may be irritating or different from what you’re used to. Patience, understanding, and open communication can help navigate these adjustments and grow closer as a couple.
Division of Household Chores: Deciding how to divide household chores can be a source of conflict. Each partner may have different expectations or experiences regarding chores. Viewing housework as a joint responsibility and finding a system that works for both partners can promote fairness and harmony.
Personal Appearance and Hygiene: Sharing living spaces means becoming aware of each other’s personal hygiene habits. It’s important to address any concerns or changes in a loving and respectful manner, promoting open communication and understanding.
Sex and Intimacy: Busy schedules and the demands of daily life can often lead to a decline in intimacy. Making time for each other, prioritizing quality time together, and nurturing physical and emotional connection are essential for a healthy and fulfilling intimate relationship.
While these challenges can be daunting, they are not insurmountable. By recognizing and addressing these issues early on, couples can strengthen their bond and work together to overcome obstacles. Effective communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to compromise are key to navigating the early years of marriage successfully and building a lasting, loving partnership
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Samuel Omolola Edema is a certified relationship educator with over 10 years experience in counseling, and also the founder of ADAM & EVE community on Facebook. Adam and Eve, where we live, love, learn and share our opinions, knowledge and experience on Dating, Relationship and Marriage. Join us with this link 👇
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